I Took Out The Trash Today.


Parker.
24.
Human
Crafter and Creator
A sort of genderqueer/trans*masculine mess.
I am a boy.
Hope you aren't too confused.

Often Confused.
Rambling & Ranting.
Skipping & Stumbling.
So I turned my jeans into a pretty queer fabulous pair of shorts! Woot. What you can’t see is the button design on the front, or the patching on the knee. What you can see is… My BUTT.

So I turned my jeans into a pretty queer fabulous pair of shorts! Woot. What you can’t see is the button design on the front, or the patching on the knee.

What you can see is… My BUTT.

I’m getting ready to go to a themed party hosted by the local queer porn company. It’s a sock hop theme. My hair is slicked to the side. I’ve got my suspenders and converse. I’m ready to go.

:)

I just found all these photos of myself from when I lived in my old apartment. About a year ago. Around the time I first started to come out. Seeing them is making me feel all THE feelings. Seeing the new and nervous look in my face and the excitement and realization.

So many feeeeelings!

chaseross:

zmizet:

just. wow.

credit to your amazing boyfriend for showing you.

I was just thinking about this song last night.

lgbtlaughs:

(A video clip from My Family - season 10, episode 2 - in which Micheal comes a bit drunk and blurts out to Ben that he’s gay.)

So, I was watching My Family couple of days ago and I realised that I’d never seen the episode where my Micheal comes out. Needless to say, I searched for it straight away and was so glad I did. It’s hilarious and heartwarming. I recommend watching the rest for Susan’s reaction to everything.

[via youthinkimanignorantsavage]

I watched this show religiously for a LONG time, and never caught this episode. I guess I didn’t see the last few seasons. Omgosh. <3 No wonder this character owned my heart, haha :)

tristantaormino: Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica is my new book from @CleisPress, which will be out in October! You have no idea how excited I am about this book. It has been a passion project for me and it’s finally up on Amazon where you can pre-order it for the ridiculously low price of less than $11. Pre-orders really boost a book’s success and placement on Amazon, so if you could find it in your heart, I would really appreciate it. Here’s the official copy all about it:  In mainstream media, the erotic identities, sex lives, and fantasies of transgender and genderqueer people are often oversimplified, sensationalized, or invisible. Take Me There is an erotica collection unlike any other that celebrates the pleasure, heat, and diversity of transgender and genderqueer sexualities. The power of seeing and being seen is a central theme in the anthology; it’s not simply about passing or not passing (an idea often explored with transgender characters), but about being acknowledged and desired in a sexual context. The book takes you from San Francisco to Israel, from heartache to lust, from stranger sex to a 10 year anniversary, from ballet shoes to butt plug bondage tables, from fumbling teenagers to leatherclad bears, from MTF and FTM—and in between and beyond.  Let me add that this book is all about the amazing contributors. Here is the entire list: Kate Bornstein (@KateBornstein), author and editor of many books including Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation, which just won a Lambda Literary Award!   Patrick Califia (@PatrickCalifia), world-renowned writer, activist, and sex radical, author of dozens of books including Speaking Sex to Power: The Politics of Queer SexS. Bear Bergman (@SBearBergman), co-editor of Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation and author of Butch is a Noun and The Nearest Exit May Be Behind You, which just went into its second printing   Ivan Coyote (@IvanCoyote), author of Missed Her and one of my personal faves, Closer to Spiderman, who is currently touring all over CanadaJulia Serano, author of Whipping Girl, currently at work on a new book Laura Antoniou (@lantoniou), author of the groundbreaking series The Marketplace, which was the first SM erotica series featuring a transman as the romantic hero. She wrote a story especially for this book all about Chris Parker! Helen Boyd (@helenboyd), author of She’s Not the Man I Married and My Husband Betty Sandra McDonald, author of the Lambda Literary Award winner, Diana Comet and Other Improbable Stories Rachel Kramer Bussel (@Raquelita), queen of erotica whose latest anthology is Gotta Have It: 69 Stories of Sudden Sex Toni Amato, co-editor of Pinned Down by Pronouns and frequent Best Lesbian Erotica contributorGina de Vries (@queershoulder), writer, cultural worker, founder &amp; co-curator (with Julia Serano &amp; Elena Rose) of “Girl Talk: a trans &amp; cis woman dialogue,” founder of Sex Workers’ Writing Workshop, and MFA candidate at San Francisco State University, where she is working on a memoir &amp; a collection of short stories. Rahne Alexander (@foucauldian_ho), musician, multimedia artist, guitarist and vocalist in the bands The Oops and The Degenerettes Giselle Renarde (@GiselleRenarde), erotica writer and editor of Future Histories: Transgendered Sci-Fi Erotica Alicia E. Goranson, playwright, screenwriter, and author of Supervillianz Rachel K. Zall, poet, performing artist, activist and author of The Oxygen Catastrophe Tobi Hill-Meyer (@Tobitastic), activist, filmmaker, writer, and Feminist Porn Award winner Shawna Virago, singer/songwriter and activist Andrea Zanin (@sexgeekAZ), organizer, educator, and writer Sinclair Sexsmith (@mrsexsmith), creator of The Sugarbutch Chronicles and frequent Best Lesbian Erotica contributor Skian McGuire, one of my favorite erotica writers ever Arden Hill, writer and poet, featured in Boys in Heat, Best Gay Erotica 2008, Best of Best Gay Erotica 3, and online at LoveYouDevine.  Michael Hernandez, writer whose work has appeared in Best of Best Lesbian Erotica 2 and Doing It for Daddy. Anna Watson, writer and contributor to The Femme Bibliography ProjectEvan Swafford, writerDean Scarborough, an aspiring sex educator who writes and illustrates erotica in his spare time …as well as a few folks you can’t stalk on the interwebs:Jacques La Fargue, who enjoys both gender and genitals in many combinations.Kiki De Lovely, queer femme performer/writer who calls Durham, NC home.Penelope Mansfield, a trans woman from California.Zev, fresh-faced, innocent-looking young man with a dirty, dirty mind. I will hit the road this fall in support of this book, so stay tuned for a list of readings as well as other information! WANT.

tristantaormino:

Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica is my new book from @CleisPress, which will be out in October! You have no idea how excited I am about this book. It has been a passion project for me and it’s finally up on Amazon where you can pre-order it for the ridiculously low price of less than $11. Pre-orders really boost a book’s success and placement on Amazon, so if you could find it in your heart, I would really appreciate it. Here’s the official copy all about it:

 In mainstream media, the erotic identities, sex lives, and fantasies of transgender and genderqueer people are often oversimplified, sensationalized, or invisible. Take Me There is an erotica collection unlike any other that celebrates the pleasure, heat, and diversity of transgender and genderqueer sexualities. The power of seeing and being seen is a central theme in the anthology; it’s not simply about passing or not passing (an idea often explored with transgender characters), but about being acknowledged and desired in a sexual context.

The book takes you from San Francisco to Israel, from heartache to lust, from stranger sex to a 10 year anniversary, from ballet shoes to butt plug bondage tables, from fumbling teenagers to leatherclad bears, from MTF and FTM—and in between and beyond. 

Let me add that this book is all about the amazing contributors. Here is the entire list:

Kate Bornstein (@KateBornstein), author and editor of many books including Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation, which just won a Lambda Literary Award!  

Patrick Califia (@PatrickCalifia), world-renowned writer, activist, and sex radical, author of dozens of books including Speaking Sex to Power: The Politics of Queer Sex

S. Bear Bergman (@SBearBergman), co-editor of Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation and author of Butch is a Noun and The Nearest Exit May Be Behind You, which just went into its second printing 

 Ivan Coyote (@IvanCoyote), author of Missed Her and one of my personal faves, Closer to Spiderman, who is currently touring all over Canada

Julia Serano, author of Whipping Girl, currently at work on a new book

Laura Antoniou (@lantoniou), author of the groundbreaking series The Marketplace, which was the first SM erotica series featuring a transman as the romantic hero. She wrote a story especially for this book all about Chris Parker!

Helen Boyd (@helenboyd), author of She’s Not the Man I Married and My Husband Betty

Sandra McDonald, author of the Lambda Literary Award winner, Diana Comet and Other Improbable Stories

Rachel Kramer Bussel (@Raquelita), queen of erotica whose latest anthology is Gotta Have It: 69 Stories of Sudden Sex

Toni Amato, co-editor of Pinned Down by Pronouns and frequent Best Lesbian Erotica contributor

Gina de Vries (@queershoulder), writer, cultural worker, founder & co-curator (with Julia Serano & Elena Rose) of “Girl Talk: a trans & cis woman dialogue,” founder of Sex Workers’ Writing Workshop, and MFA candidate at San Francisco State University, where she is working on a memoir & a collection of short stories.

Rahne Alexander (@foucauldian_ho), musician, multimedia artist, guitarist and vocalist in the bands The Oops and The Degenerettes

Giselle Renarde (@GiselleRenarde), erotica writer and editor of Future Histories: Transgendered Sci-Fi Erotica

Alicia E. Goranson, playwright, screenwriter, and author of Supervillianz

Rachel K. Zall, poet, performing artist, activist and author of The Oxygen Catastrophe

Tobi Hill-Meyer (@Tobitastic), activist, filmmaker, writer, and Feminist Porn Award winner

Shawna Virago, singer/songwriter and activist

Andrea Zanin (@sexgeekAZ), organizer, educator, and writer

Sinclair Sexsmith (@mrsexsmith), creator of The Sugarbutch Chronicles and frequent Best Lesbian Erotica contributor

Skian McGuire, one of my favorite erotica writers ever

Arden Hill, writer and poet, featured in Boys in Heat, Best Gay Erotica 2008, Best of Best Gay Erotica 3, and online at LoveYouDevine. 

Michael Hernandez, writer whose work has appeared in Best of Best Lesbian Erotica 2 and Doing It for Daddy.

Anna Watson, writer and contributor to The Femme Bibliography Project

Evan Swafford, writer

Dean Scarborough, an aspiring sex educator who writes and illustrates erotica in his spare time

…as well as a few folks you can’t stalk on the interwebs:

Jacques La Fargue, who enjoys both gender and genitals in many combinations.

Kiki De Lovely, queer femme performer/writer who calls Durham, NC home.

Penelope Mansfield, a trans woman from California.

Zev, fresh-faced, innocent-looking young man with a dirty, dirty mind.

I will hit the road this fall in support of this book, so stay tuned for a list of readings as well as other information!

WANT.

(via suicidesuburbia)

EEK

I put up a profile picture on facebook of me, wearing my new Legalize Trans* shirt. Pretty much everyone knows I’m queer, but the trans* part makes me a little nervous. I also put my middle name in parenthesis after, as a nickname or other name. I’m sure it won’t be a big deal, but I’m nervous, haha. 

Even though I don’t plan on making any other changes than social ones right now, it still makes me a little nervous to talk about being genderqueer & trans masculine. Oh, life. Haha.

What does virginity mean to a queer person, who may never have vaginal intercourse in her/his/hir life? What of a lesbian who chooses to never engage in any sort of penetrative sex act her entire life, does she remain some sort of super, extra virgin? If a straight man receives a blowjob, he will in all likelihood still consider himself a virgin, but a gay man receiving a blowjob may have a more complicated understanding of what it means for his sex life. In many ways, our conception of “virginity” erases or invalidates queer sex.

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Virginity: Ditch It (sexposgrrrl)

i’ve never understood why people were so stuck on “what counts as sex”, but i guess i’ve never understood why people are so stuck on making a huge deal about their own sexualities either. i guess it’s just another category that we absolutely must all fit in.

(via ohsmelliottt)

(via ohsmelliottt)

I plan on attempting the creation of some t-shirts, in the near-ish future. I would love any input on some phrases/designs of the queer variety.

Thanks :)